The story that follows here is a real example of the types of calls our parish receives on the emergency line as shared by Katie Mendenhall, our director of pastoral care:
It’s 10:00 p.m. on a Thursday and the St. Robert emergency line rings. On the other end of the call there’s sniffling and then silence. “Whenever you’re ready to talk, I’m here to listen,” I say, and I wait to see if he will have the courage to speak.
As he begins to share, I learn he’s 22 years old, a fallen away Catholic, and feeling lost. He was recently informed that, due to his grades, he is losing his full-ride scholarship. He has felt so depressed that he stopped attending classes, has been going out and partying to numb the pain, and admits to feeling suicidal. “I just … I don’t really have anyone I feel I can talk to. I think I need to go to confession, so I went online to find a Catholic church and St. Robert was the first church that came up.”
We talk for a long time and he decides to come to the church to pray in the chapel. He calls later when he is leaving and says he feels so much better. I ask Father Tony do a follow up call the next morning, and he comes in to chat with Father. After further conversations, this young man agrees to see a counselor and to get help for his depression, and also agrees to talk to his parents.
The stigma of mental illness often keeps individuals from reaching out for help. Some individuals may even stop coming to church because of the stigma. In the case of this young man, we rejoice that he thought to reach out to a Catholic church in his time of need and that we have on staff someone who recognizes the signs of mental illness and has the training and experience to offer help and accompaniment.
As part of that accompaniment, our Samaritan Fund enables us to provide counseling sessions for those struggling with mental illness when insurance doesn’t offer coverage, or coverage is not available. Your Giving Tuesday gift at the link below will enable this important outreach to continue:
If you have any questions, please contact the parish office, ParishOffice@strobertchurch.org or (616) 676-9111.